Ramblings

Sunday, October 22, 2006

Yesterday, our former pastor came to our house. I wasn't looking forward to it because we didn't know the agenda or purpose of her visit. She came to apologize for aspects of her personality that may have offended. She also dove a little deeper and said that she had worked on issues related to the fact that she was raised by alcoholics, but that some problem areas were coming back. I appreciated her reflection. I think anyone who was raised by alcoholics must have to work hard every day to figure out what's okay and wrong behavior. In her case, she brought up boundaries. It's true....too many phone calls (in the past), pushing her agenda.

I didn't say much during the meeting. I mainly listened. I think that was the right approach. She was there to apologize and we didn't need to break her down anymore. I have lots of people in my life who I can talk to who I know listen. I'm not sure she would have listened...really listened. I want her to work on herself and not try to fix my concerns. Brian spoke generally for both of us and mentioned one specific example that frustrated him--the way leadership meetings were run.

We had a lot of build-up to the meeting and then nothing much happened. We expected a variety of approaches to come our way, but she opted for the apologetic route. Honestly, it'll take some time to go back to that church and for now Brian's really happy playing the handbells. I'm enjoying reading the Bible again and hearing a good sermon. We're moving on and happier and that's a good thing!

Happy 28th Birthday, Anna (my sister)!

¶ 7:56 AM

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Name: Sarah

Location: Beaverton, Oregon, United States

I was a French teacher for four years, a life-long dream achieved. Now, I'm taking a serious break to raise a family. I go to a United Methodist Church regularly with my husband, daughter and son. For my future ideal job, I'd love to travel the world eating in great restaurants and write food reviews!!! Someday I'd like to live on the Oregon Coast and be a translator for French tourists! However, in the meantime I'm earning a substantial income with Jewels by Park Lane, subbing & Shaklee!